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Sex and Sensibility: The Thinking Parent's
Guide to Talking Sense About Sex, was published in January,
2001, by Perseus Publishing. Sex and Sensibility is
available online from Barnes
& Noble.Com or Amazon.Com,
directly from the publisher, Perseus
Publishing, or from your local bookseller.
Michael Gurian, author of The Wonder
Boys:
"Sex and Sensibility is a remarkably wise book. It
offers a new way of thinking about sex and sexuality and shows parents
the way to best communicate that understanding to children of all
ages. This is essential reading...it will help all of us be better
parents."
Michael Riera, co-author Field
Guide to the American Teenager: "Our kids, from an early
age, are more curious and more knowledgeable about sex and sexuality
than most of us dare to image. Fortunately Deborah Roffman has written
this book to assist us in initiating and getting comfortable in
these life-affirming discussions. By book's end, you might even
find yourself looking forward to these conversations!"
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Deborah
Roffman's second book, But How Did I Get In There: Talking
to Your Young Child About Sex was published by Perseus
Books in April 2002.
For
parents of three to six year olds, a wise and charming guide
to talking about sex, conception, and birth. Young children
ask questions about sex, sexuality, conception, and birth
that can be embarrassing or uncomfortable for parents. With
her characteristic good sense and cool head, author Deborah
Roffman will put even the most awkward parents at ease, giving
them the skills to talk confidently with young children about
these important but delicate issues.
In this wonderfully reassuring book, readers will learn that
the key to talking with children about sex is knowing that
their questions fall into three easily recognizable categories.
At age three or four, kids are curious about geography ("Where
was I before I was here?"), and at four or five, about
delivery ("Exactly how did I get out of there?").
Finally, the six year old's classic stumper--"But how'd
I get in there in the first place?"--is about cause and
effect, not about imminent sexual activity! With the emotional
and developmental
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Rabbi Elliot N. Dorff, author This
is My Beloved, This is My Friend: A Rabbinic Letter on Human Intimacy:
"I frankly wish that my parents had had this book when they were raising
me and that I had had it when I was raising my own children. It is
a wonderfully warm, witty, and, especially, wise book....Absolutely
everyone should read it."
Barbara Kemp Huberman, Director of
Sexuality Education, Advocates for Youth: "Sex and Sensibility
offers parents a concrete, practical and sensible road map to guide
their sexual health parenting skills. Every parent needs this book
to ensure their children grow up to be adults who are respectful,
responsible, and are capable of healthy and safe intimate relationships."
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